As I write, I am sitting by the pool at Braeside Camp with friends watching my kids swim. Sunday night I ate deep-fried pickles around a dirty camp picnic table with friends. Last week I learned about Nigerian wedding culture while having snacks in my living room. I’ve had a lot (for me) of fellowship the past few weeks . . . and it’s been awesome.
Summer lends itself well to getting together with old friends, meeting new friends, building relationships, and creating community.
Community is something organic that comes from people spending time together, feeling cared for, and being able to open up. You can’t force authenticity and vulnerability; it has to be natural and comes from feeling safe with others.
I am an introvert. I love people but I recharge by being alone. Sometimes I need to remind myself of the importance of spending time with fellow believers outside of the church walls. We weren’t created to be alone; God created us to be in community.
Creating community takes effort, admittedly more effort for some than others. The effort comes by showing up and stepping out. Show up to Sunday services, join Connecting Point groups, and bring your kids and youth to age-appropriate programs. Those are all important ways to be part of community. But they’re only a few options.
Building community takes effort but it’s worth it. Community outside of the church lends itself to community inside the church. When you need prayer, encouragement or want to join a small group, you are more likely to ask or join when you already know people.
You don’t have to wait for someone to invite you, try doing the inviting. Your house doesn’t have to be a fancy nor do you have to be able to cook gourmet meals to have someone over.
This summer I encourage you to find ways to connect. The weather is gorgeous, the possibilities are limitless and the reward is worth it. My husband is looking for a disc golf buddy if anyone is interested . . .
Pastor Erin
“9 Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: 10 If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! 11 Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? 12 Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.”
THIS SUNDAY
KEYS TO THE KINGDOM: Unlocking the Parables
The Parable of the Ten Virgins
Tracy Dunham
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